Before
I can determine if I can help you, we need
to talk candidly about your strengths, your
successes, your values and goals: your abilities
to function well in life. We need to set
a context about how well you do when you
are functioning at your best. It is against
this backdrop that we look at your concerns,
your issues, your “Its”. Your
strengths, your positive abilities have
to outweigh your weaknesses. You have to
really Want-to-Want to make the difference
despite the obstacles, the fears, the others
who get in your way. With your WannaWanna
leading the way, we can leverage your strengths
to accomplish your goals, if they are realistic.
I believe in
under-promise and over-deliver. If it is
clear to me that you have the ability to
succeed at getting what you want, I will
tell you so. I will explain the process
and help you develop the plan of what to
do and how. If I can’t help you, I
will tell you.
You determine
whether or not you feel comfortable with
what you have heard, trust what you have
experienced, that the plan makes sense.
You give us the permission to proceed. I
work for your success and will not volunteer
for failure, yours or mine. Coaching is
about you and whether you can benefit.