The Adrenaline Lifestyle
Scoring Key

15-18     Certified Adrenaline Junkie. Get Help Fast!
10-14     An unhealthy level of adrenaline is probably coursing
             through your body.
 5-  9     Possible adrenaline issues.
 0-  4     Congratulations! You appear to not have an adrenaline 
             problem.


Do you fully understand what an Adrenaline Lifestyle is?

Adrenaline is the drug of choice of a stressed society. It is:

1.  A Source of Energy
    Humans will go to any length to get the quickest, easiest 
    source of energy. Adrenaline produces energy, not the 
    most healthful, but it is continually available.

2.  A Narcotic Racket
    Humans succumb to this drug instead of letting their hearts decide.

3.  A Medicant
    Adrenaline rushes to help a person to “blast through” difficult 
    times. The problem is, the adrenaline junkie creates crises 
    just for the rush. When a person is “on” adrenaline, they have
    a respite from pain and emotional attachments become 
    “not needed”.

4.  A Nasty Habit, Which Creates a Lifestyle
    To get the rush, humans do soul-damaging things: over investing
    in careers, greed, getting ahead, winning, keeping self in survival
    in order to have something to win at, etc.

5.  A Toxin, Which Keeps Healthy People Away
    Those who are “over” their former adrenaline addiction or are not
    adrenaline-based usually won’t develop close relationships with
    adrenaline addicts; it is too upsetting and painful, so the addict
    ends up surrounded by co-dependents or other addicts.

The Problem is: Adrenaline is an Addiction to Your Self.

Adrenaline Addicts are known as ADAs. 
(Adrenaline Dependent Addicts)

What Others Will Say Or Think About The ADA
1.  Boy, is his motor running all the time? How can his spouse take it?
2.  I know she listened to what I said, but I don’t think she heard me!
3.  You can count on Karen to be late; that’s just her.
4.  Jerry is always so busy.  I wonder what he’s always doing?
5.  Susan works too hard. What’s with her?
6.  Why does Michael put himself through all that stress? I think he likes
     it or something.
7.  She always said she works best under pressure, but she’s including 
     us too!

The Good News is that Adrenaline Addiction is a Recoverable Condition. 
ADAs can recover from adrenaline addiction, usually by changing select behaviors.
ADAs can identify their personal Triggers, which start the rush and eliminate the 
triggers.
ADAs recover faster with the help of an adrenaline-recovered coach or a therapist.
ADAs will go through a withdrawal period of between 6-12 months 
(see The Recovery Process below).

The Recovery Process requires you to:
Identify and Stop the triggering behavior.
Be willing to be very bored, until your new energy source kicks in (3-6 months). 
Speak truthfully and completely to everyone and yourself in order to let go of the
residue and heal.
Hire a Coach, Therapist or Experienced Consultant.
Install a Strong Personal Foundation to keep you well and adrenaline free.

Adrenaline Trigger
Solution
Overpromising results, even a little bit.
Deliberately underpromise, regardless of the person's reaction or consequence.
Arriving exactly on time or late.
Leave 15 minutes early for every appointment.
Involved in non-essential projects/activities.
Cut out 50% of all personal and professional projects and goals.
Should's and have to's that are someone else's agenda.
Get rid of all shoulds, regardless of the source.
Being optimistic during a rough time.
Surrender to the tough time; dont try to see it better than it is.
Doing one thing in order to get to another thing.
Just do the latter and see if it works
having current unresolved matters in your life.
We have at least 100; get them done and prioritize.
Holding back from another: being nice, being mad, not owning up to something you did.
Have a heart to heart conversation and become intimate.
Not asking for what you need.
Be specific and ask before you need it.
Tolerations: things you are putting up with.
Put up with nothing; re-educate people.
Letting people walk all over you.
Expand your boundaries.
Trying to prove something by your results.
Shift from results to people and pleasure.
Driving faster than the speed limit.
Slow way down: you have the time, take it.


If these suggestions help you, use them in good health.
If you are having difficulties with implementing them, give me a call.
I might be able to help you walk away from excessive adrenaline,
regain your WannaWanna and your life.

Form adapted from and inspired by Coach U.

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